13 Parenting Tips We Could All Take From Britney Spears (Seriously)

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Wait. Hear us out. So Britney Spears got a little flack a decade ago for going through a rough time — you can learn all about it in the New York Times‘ documentary, Framing Britney Spears. The only difference between Brit’s meltdowns and my meltdowns is the fact that mine are in private. (Usually.) So, let’s all leave her alone when it comes to past mistakes, okay?

If you follow the “Slave 4 U” singer on social media, then you know a few things: She’s still got it, more than 20 years after the release of “…Baby One More Time.” (Have you seen one of the latest videos off her ninth studio album?) She completed a highly successful Las Vegas residency. She’s finally comfortable in her own skin — though it probably helps that her skin and body are completely flawless. And despite her 2006 divorce from their dad, Kevin Federline, she’s an amazing mother to her teenage sons Jayden and Sean. When they were younger (because teens aren’t exactly all about selfies with mom), the proud mother would post photos of her kids about as much as she’d share pics from her epic career.

So, we’d like to bring you this list of parenting tips inspired by a few old pics from the pop icon’s Instagram account:


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1. Read. And then read some more. Reading books aloud to your children — no matter how young — has been recognized as one of the most important activities a parent can do. It can foster a lifelong love of learning and result in advanced language development and increased reading skills. Plus, it’s a great (and easy!) way to bond and engage with your little ones.

Sunday hikes always keep me motivated. Fresh air and Vitamin D are natural remedies for the mind, body, and spirit.

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2. Stay active and find ways to make it fun! You don’t have to gyrate on a Las Vegas stage four nights a week in order to stay active. Hiking, swimming, yoga and bike rides are all things you can do with your kids on occasion. Healthy parents make for healthy kids; plus, there’s the added benefit of mood-boosting endorphins and increased energy — both essential ingredients to keeping up with the endless energy of your tykes.

My son and his friend Cole’s project for school! ?

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3. Encourage study dates with friends. Fostering learning and social skills? Win-win! Plus, your kiddo might actually get his homework done without too much hassle.

My son received an award at school today for being the best encourager!!

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4. Take pride in your children’s accomplishments. Whether she got a grand award at school or he learned how to write his name, don’t forget to dole out the praise. And go on, brag a little, if you wish. Put that bumper sticker on your car.

Big bday for my boys! Double digits whoop whoop! ?

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5. Don’t be afraid to spoil your kids… sometimes. No, we don’t all have a disposable amount of income like Brit, but there’s no harm in saying YES to your kiddo every so often. Sometimes. Just a little. Maybe on his birthday.

Crazy day!

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6. Get a little silly WITH your kids. Kids can be really friggin’ weird sometimes, and you might not ever understand. But that’s what makes them kids. Ditch your grown-up hat, and get silly with them. They have their whole lives to grow up. In fact, so do you.

My son made an interception in his game whoooo!!!

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7. Support your kiddos’ activities, whatever they may be. Be it ballet or basketball, hit up those recitals and games. Support them. Encourage them. Show them you care.

My damn kids ?

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8. Don’t leave your phone unattended. You never know what could happen.

My son has blue hair!! Wheeee!

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9. Let your kids be kids. Like, within reason, of course. Keep the Crayola markers off the walls (unless you want a cheap mural), but if your son wants to dye his hair blue for a day, so be it.

Brushy brushy brushy!

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10. Stress the importance of health and good hygiene. Sure, this is an obvi one, but it’s still important. And this photo was too cute not to include.

Sleepy Sunday night beautiful world

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11. Give in to the snuggles. You never know when the cuddles and snuggles will fade (probably at the age of 14), so enjoy them while you can.

My baby has grown up so much!

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12. Cherish and enjoy EVERY moment. Because they grow up so fast!

13. Take some time out for yourself. While most of us don’t have a body like Britney, you can still take a moment to do a weird little dance in your skivvies. Oh, wait. That’s me. Here’s Britney’s undies dance!

Photos courtesy of Britney Spears’ personal Instagram.

Disclaimer: These tips were originally written In 2016 when the author was still pregnant and had no kids. No. 12 probably doesn't apply today, because who literally enjoys EVERY moment with their littles? Just sayin'.
Tina Smithers Peckham
Originally from Kansas City, Tina relocated to Jacksonville, FL with her dear husband, feisty cat and sweet-natured corgi mix in 2016. After eight years working various gigs in New York City from magazine publishing to digital marketing, Tina joined the world of freelance, writing and reporting for a variety of publications and websites including MTV News, ET Online, Glamour, Us Weekly and more. Tina has also assisted with social media, editorial and content strategy for brands and personalities such as Britney Spears, Jordin Sparks, Beauty Brands, truTV and WE tv. When she’s not plugging away on her laptop, she can be found exploring the Jacksonville beaches, reading a good book or enjoying a local coffee shop with her cherub-cheeked little boys, Archer and Austin.


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