Ten-Cent Cheeseburgers and a Kiwi

I saved another “healthier” food alternative video from one of my favorite Instagram influencers. My feed is now littered with “better” choices when feeding my children — “better” and sometimes very financially impractical. We often hear the debate that you can’t put a price on your health or you are what you eat. Some days, we are a kale salad; others, we are a fast food sandwich. Aside from the fact that I support a lifestyle of balance, my inner child finds some fast food nostalgic. It’s no secret that I’m a health food advocate. I dedicated the early part of my college career to completing a degree in dietetics because of my love for holistic health. There is a background story that led to this passion that I recently shared with my three kids. It started with an ad I saw from McDonald’s on National Cheeseburger Day regarding $0.50 cheeseburgers.

To preface this story, my son told me he wasn’t hungry when I made him a plate of fresh berries. I cringed inside because all I could think about was how I would have loved to eat a plate full of fresh berries when I was his age… but back to the McDonald’s burger story. I grew up one of seven children, and my parents had a very limited income. “Healthy” meant fed, not your colorful Instagram-worthy post of lean meats and fresh produce. McDonald’s used to have a 10-cent hamburger on Tuesdays and a 20-cent cheeseburger deal on Wednesdays. Each drive-through car was only allowed to order ten burgers, so my mom would drive through twice so she could purchase 20 burgers. Let’s do the math: To feed a family of nine on Tuesdays, she only spent $2.00 plus tax, and on Wednesdays, it was less than $5.00 for the whole family to have a meal. We never complained about eating a fast food burger; it was something we looked forward to. However, on many occasions, I wished I could try something fresh and colorful. I vividly remember sitting in the cafeteria at my middle school and seeing a girl eat a kiwi every day at lunch. Her mom cut the kiwi in half, and she ate it with a spoon. I always wondered what a kiwi tasted like, but it wasn’t until years later that I would taste my first kiwi after starting my first job.
It’s a privilege to choose healthier alternatives. Eating a rainbow diet, fully avoiding processed foods, and many times giving someone dietary health advice is a privilege. Some families eat for calories; they don’t have the privilege of choosing food items based on nutritional value. There are many times that I have caught myself while giving someone dietary advice, and I am reminded of the little girl in middle school who wished she could try a kiwi.
Kelsey Cassman is a Jacksonville native, a full-time critical care nurse, and a single mom to three littles, Noah, Sophia, and Lincoln, who keep life beautifully chaotic and full of meaning. She’s earning her graduate degree as a nurse practitioner at Jacksonville University, balancing life between the bedside, books, and bedtime routines. After years as a stay-at-home mom, Kelsey has stepped into a new chapter, one filled with growth, grit, and a lot of grace. She loves days at the beach, rollerblading, spontaneous dance parties with her kids in the living room, and sweating out stress at the gym. Her creative heart shines through in photography and writing, two outlets that help her process the highs, lows, and humor of motherhood. Having experienced so many stages of mom life from babies to middle schoolers, from playdates to night shifts, Kelsey brings an honest, encouraging voice to the Jacksonville Mom community.

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